How does this site know that I am opening another tab?

One way to do this is via cookies and ids. Firstly, you are logged in to the site and have a session on there. This is managed using cookies; whenever you visit a page on the site, your browser will send a cookie which normally contains some kind of id. That way the server can identify any request coming from you, is really from you. So, in this case, both your original tab and your new tab will send the same cookie.

Secondly, it can also add another, different id (call it the page id), to any link or form you submit on the site. So a form on a page might contain the id 1234, and any links will also contain that id. Each new page you visit might contain a new id. So at any point, the site knows that next request from your browser (identified by the cookies) should also contain this other id. If you navigate around the site in a normal way, clicking on links, submitting forms, this will be true and all will be good.

Cases when your next request would NOT submit the expected, second id are:

  1. you hit the back button (you would be sending an old page id)
  2. you open a new tab (this depends on the browser, but if it opens the same page you are already on in the original tab, it would be sending the current page id, not the next page id, which the server expects)

Either way, you send a request with a page id the server doesn't expect and it can make a best guess as to what you did.