What's being surrounded

Perl, 144 138 132 129 128 127 126 124 bytes

Includes +2 for -p0

The code assumes \0 is not a valid input character (at least inside the #).

Run with the input on STDIN:

surround.pl < surround.txt

surround.pl:

#!/usr/bin/perl -p0
/^#[^#\0]/m&&s/^|[^#\n\0]\0/\0\0/mg,s%.%s/.(.*)/$+\0/g;/#/&&reverse"\n",/^./mg%seg until$?++<$$_++;y/\0/#/;s/^#*\n|#+$|^#//mg;y;#; 

The code works as is, but replace the \0 and \n by their literal versions for the claimed score. Notice there is a space at the end of the line. The code loops way too many times, so you may have to wait 30 seconds or so for output.

Explanation

I am going to do a floodfill with \0 stopped by # from the outside in the orthogonal directions. After that I will slice off the # sides and replace all that is left by spaces. To avoid having to handle all directions in the floodfill I will repeatedly rotate the target area and only floodfill from right to left

/^#[^#\0]/m                   The rotation is written such that it slices
                              off the first column. That is ok unless the
                              first column contains a # that is followed by
                              something that could be the inside. There is
                              no newline inside the [] because short lines
                              will get extended during the rotation and 
                              the character following the # will end
                              up as a \0 and match in a later round
    &&s/^|[^#\n\0]\0/\0\0/mg  In case the # could be an interior border I
                              will add two columns of \0's in front. One 
                              will be a sacrifice for the rotation, the
                              other column will end up at the end of the area
                              after two rotations and function as seed for the
                              floodfill. This regex also does one step of
                              the floodfill from the back to the front.
                              After a certain number of loops we are certain
                              to get to a first column that must not be 
                              dropped so at some point the last column is 
                              guaranteed to consist of only \0. And we only need
                              to fill backward since the rotations will make
                              any direction backward at some point

s%.%  process column  %seg    I will replace each character (including \n)
                              in the string by the next column in reversed
                              order or an empty string if there are no more
                              interesting columns. This is therefore a right
                              rotation. There are less columns than
                              characters so this loop is long enough

    s%.%s/.(.*)/$+\0/g        Remove the next (now first) character from each
                              row (so remove the column). Because the
                              original area is not necessarily a rectangle
                              add a \0 at the end of the row so we won't run
                              out out of columns (this would cause shorter
                              rows to have no entry in the new rotated row)
                              This will not do anything for empty lines so
                              they DO get squeezed out. But that is not a 
                              problem since the problem statement says there
                              will be only one # shape so any empty lines
                              are can be safely dropped (this would not be
                              so if there could be multiple # shapes because
                              that could create a new surrounded area

    /#/                       Check if any of the remaining columns still 
                              has a #. If not all remaining columns are on 
                              the outside and can be dropped
       &&reverse"\n",/^./mg   Collect the column and add a \n to its reverse

 until$?++<$$_++              Keep doing this until we get to a multiple of
                              65536 rotations when $? waraps back around to 0
                              (this is a multiple of 4 so the area is left
                              unrotated) and an area we have seen before
                              ($$_ >= 1)
                              (so all slicing and flood filling is finished)
                              $_ having been seen in a previous rotations is
                              not a problem (though rather tricky to prove)

At this point e.g.

AB##J
E####GK
F# M #L
#   N#O
P####

will have been replaced by:

0000000
0####00
0# M #0
#   N#0
0####00

Basically all columns and rows that are not directly bordering the inside have been sliced off. Any outside characters left has been replaced by \0. At the top and right there is an extra layer of \0. So all that is left is cleanup:

y/\0/#/                       Replace any outside that is left by #
s/^#*\n|#+$|^#//mg            Removes the first two and last line (the only 
                              lines that can consist of purely #)
                              Removes any trailing #
                              Removes the first column of #
y;#; \n;                      Replace any remaining # by space since they 
                              are needed to fill the concave parts
                              The final \n; is not written since it is implicit
                              in the -p loop

Javascript, 485 464 427 417 396 390 bytes

s='indexOf';k='lastIndexOf';h="#";t=b=>b[0].map((x,i)=>b.map(x=>x[i]));i=>{m=i.split`
`;for(h of m){m[m[s](h)]=h.split``;}for(y=0;y<m.length;y++){for(z=x=0;x<m[y].length;x++){if(m[y][x]==h)break;if(m[y][s](h)<x&&m[y][k](h)>x)z++;q=t(m);if(q[y][s]h)<x&&m[y][k](h)>x)z++;if(z>2)m[y][x]=h}}for(p of m){v=p.join``.match(/\S/);e=v?p.join``:'';m[m[s](p)]=e;}m=m.join`
`;return m.replace(#/g," ")}

Yes. I tried. And, although I am at 485 bytes, I am winning because no-one else felt like answering this question. So, hah!
And also, I am well aware that I could golf this loads, I just am tired at the moment... well now I'm at 396 Thanks to Conor for most of the golfing... :D