Table of Contents incorrect page numbering

Change the order of \addcontentsline:

\newpage
\section*{Abstract}
\addcontentsline{toc}{section}{Abstract}

\newpage
\addcontentsline{toc}{section}{Table of Contents}
\tableofcontents

\newpage
\addcontentsline{toc}{section}{List of Tables}
\listoftables

\newpage
\addcontentsline{toc}{section}{List of Figures} 
\listoffigures

If the hyperref package is going to be used, you might add \phantomsection to produce the right anchors for hyperlinks:

\newpage
\phantomsection
\addcontentsline{toc}{section}{Table of Contents}
\tableofcontents

As a suggestion, instead of using "manual" names, you could use the macros containing the pre-defined names; so instead of

\addcontentsline{toc}{section}{List of Figures}

you could say

\addcontentsline{toc}{section}{\listfigurename}

I had the same problem, and changing the order of \addcontentsline solved a major part of it, but then my numbers were off by one. To solve that, I put \clearpage (or \cleardoublepage if you are doing double sided) before every \addcontentsline.

Now a day, mostly we prefer to the hyperlink. Thus if printing in the double side, which is usually a case for Thesis or reports.

So, the best command even removing the page number in the blank page:

\phantomsection
\addcontentsline{toc}{chapter}{ Contents}  \raggedbottom \pagebreak \thispagestyle{empty}
\tableofcontents  \raggedbottom \pagebreak \thispagestyle{empty}


\cleardoublepage  % \clearpage (if using single side)
\phantomsection
\addcontentsline{toc}{chapter}{ List of Figures}  \raggedbottom \pagebreak \thispagestyle{empty}


\listoffigures  \raggedbottom \pagebreak \thispagestyle{empty}
\cleardoublepage  % \clearpage (if using single side)

\phantomsection
\addcontentsline{toc}{chapter}{ List of Tables} 
\listoftables  \raggedbottom \pagebreak \thispagestyle{empty}