How to change the default port of mysql from 3306 to 3360

You need to edit your my.cnf file and make sure you have the port set as in the following line:

port = 3360

Then restart your MySQL service and you should be good to go. There is no query you can run to make this change because the port is not a dynamic variable (q.v. here for MySQL documentation showing a table of all system variables).

If you're on Windows, you may find the config file my.ini it in this directory

C:\ProgramData\MySQL\MySQL Server 5.7\

You open this file in a text editor and look for this section:

# The TCP/IP Port the MySQL Server will listen on
port=3306

Then you change the number of the port, save the file. Find the service MYSQL57 under Task Manager > Services and restart it.