Can't find path to ~/.vimrc file

The path is correct but the file doesn't exist yet. It is not created by default because it's an optional way to configure your own settings.

Like with any text editor, when you call vim and enter the name of a file that doesn't exist (or is blank) it opens a blank file with that name, that's why

vim ~/.vimrc

opens an empty file. Press i, write something, and then save the file somehow by typing esc:wenter and now you have a ~/.vimrc

Should you need one, you will find an example for ~/.vimrc somewhere in /usr/share/vim/. On my system it's /usr/share/vim/vim74/vimrc_example.vim

Inside it tells you what to do if you want to use it:

" An example for a vimrc file.
"
" Maintainer:   Bram Moolenaar <[email protected]>
" Last change:  2016 Mar 25
"
" To use it, copy it to
"     for Unix and OS/2:  ~/.vimrc

Lazy way to find it:

sudo updatedb && locate vimrc

Otherwise, you can make your own from scratch. Here's one wiki with some guidance on making ~/.vimrc.

The easiest way to create a ~/.vimrc file, and have an excellent starting point for your own explorations, is to run the following from a Terminal window:

cp -v /usr/share/vim/vim*/vimrc_example.vim ~/.vimrc

Open this file with you favorite text editor and start exploring, the file is well commented and there are also endless examples on the Internet to experiment with...