Bare metal or virtualize?
No question, virtualize. The benefits and flexibility afforded by virtualization far outweigh the negligible performance hit.
Your plan, though is sub-optimal, primarily because Virtualbox is a desktop-grade virtualization solution and is not intended for server usage.
Here's what I'd suggest: install (free) VMware ESXi on both servers, then create VMs on them as needed. If you don't care for ESXi, then consider Hyper-V or KVM. Leave the host OS/hypervisor as "clean" as possible, responsible only for running your VMs, and create VMs as needed. Don't run any application processes on the host OS.
If you have some budget for this, pick up the VMware Essentials Plus bundle, which gets you vCenter, which will allow you to do things like live VM migrations between hosts, centralized management, backups using tools like Veeam, etc.
Once you move to a virtualized environment, you'll never go back.
Virtualizing will help with your needs tremndously.
We have a small business and virtualizing allows us to consolidate hardware, increase segregation of services to help with security, and helps with uptime because we can migrate VMs between hosts (hypervisors) very easily; something that is very difficult with baremetal.
We use dated enterprise hardware in pairs with backup parts kept on site (fans, drives, etc) but have both a primary and secondary host; Our host runs VMs serving DRBD, Apache, MYSQL, Samba, NFS, Reslio Sync, Dropbox, etc. We let our host manage RAID arrays using MDADM. Utilizing DRBD the VMs are kept in sync on a backup server so downtime is almost a non-issue even with a catastrophic hardware failure on the primary host.
But being a small business it simplifies hardware management, allows us to run less hardware which has far reaching implications on budget and IT resources, and consolidates the management of our services because it is natural to administer all the VMs from a single console on a workstation; for us through Xen Center as we use XenServer.
Further it allows us to segregate things so things like cloud services can be virtually segregated from internal services providing a high degree of security. For example we serve two separate cloud file services in two separate VMs; one for field personel accessible via mobile devices and one for office personel accessible via the internal network.
As a note, our backup server (not secondary host) is not virtualized purposefully so we have baremetal access to our files in case of a software or configuration failure with our host. That is if our host corrupts our VMs or data stores somehow we have baremetal access to the files and VMs still.
In the end we can provide our company with enterprise grade file, backup, web, cloud, and other services all in house for minimal cost and maximum uptime. It also allows us to expand as we can integrate other services; planned in the near future are VPN services for remote book keepers and Android form services for field personel that needs a windows software intermediary to interface with MySql. Without virutalizing we would need to buy, run, and administer more hardware; virtualizing has eliminated the problem of hardware all together when adding such services and we can simply focus on integration of the software/service which can be daunting enough.